many thanks for your sweet reply Tom
i have since found a local choir that doesn't just do gospel but also pop & rock so i am going to try & join & hopefully i might make a friend or two there!
it is in the town centre so away from all the riff raff around here which is good!
hopefully it will be a good thing for me as i love to sing 7 music has always been my therapy!
have a lovely week
love & light to you