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Old August 6th, 2011, 05:40
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Shalom in Yeshua Stu, I know you are a lovely young man, but you need to talk to someone, and I am here if you want to. I know it is difficult for you but I want to help if I can by helping you rationalise your feelings. You can send me messages privately if you prefare.

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Old August 6th, 2011, 10:09
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Thank you Tom, I'll take you up on that.

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Old August 7th, 2011, 13:09
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Oh Stu
That last bit made me chuckle!!! Totally cool! The alcohol loosens your emotions sometimes lol! I know what you mean about being normal......I am totally like that. Un grounded, floating, out of body. I get it!!!!!! It makes you feel like a nutcase.

Thanks for making me smile!!
H x
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Old August 7th, 2011, 16:40
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Anytime Hayley, glad i made you smile x
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Old August 13th, 2011, 15:58
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I'm a bit tired of going back and forth. One minute I'm ok and the next I am back there again. Still in disbelief. Is this ever going to end? I am trying so hard to change my thought process. I know I am in control of my thoughts, I know it is me making me feel sad, not my Mum. It is my choice how I have chosen to think, which is in sadness. I have the power to change this, I have the power over my feelings, my thoughts and my emotions, I have the key to my happiness.
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Old August 19th, 2011, 10:44
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Its a strange different world now. I am not comfortable. I want to be safe again.

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Old October 12th, 2011, 17:21
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Hi everyone! I'm still here. Been on quite a journey so much has happened. Tom I have been meaning to message you but didn't know where to start. Never have anytime. I am still overwhelmed everyday. I want it to stop this sadness.
I go about life normally now. Then suddenly I think of the event, her, her body, her youth, how wrong, how tragic, how final, unreal, it can't be, not accepted, Dad, poor Dad, avoidance, more sadness.

So that's it really, been through amazing spiritual journeys. Too many things now to say. All I'm saying is that Mum has not left me yet, she is not ready to leave, she knows I am not ready.

It's all the messages I keep getting, signs, things happening, too many for coincidence now. It is amazing, this has kept me going. The signs that life goes on.

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Old October 13th, 2011, 13:49
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Shalom in Yeshua Hayley, lovely to hear from you. I have always kept you and the many others in my prayers. I am here whenever you are ready to share with me.

May God bless you
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