Originally Posted by RoxyMoron
I agree...if someone I knew had cancer, I would be stronger because I would have already gotten my crying out and not ask "why" so much, and they could enjoy the time they have left.
Sudden deaths are so unfinished...and so unjustified...you just can never understand why...
The shock is so incredible. It's as if a big hole opens up and there isn't anything you can do to help that person any longer. Just about the only thing you can do is hope they didn't suffer any pain.